I think it's normal. I hope so anyway. I got to talk to my Sister yesterday for the first time in a year and a half. I confronted my stepfather with some stuff, and he went to her to deny things before I could talk to her. She took his side. He is her dad, not mine. We share the same mom. I send her verses everyday, and she never looked at them. Then out of the blue my daughter in law alerts me that my sis is looking for me on Facebook. I don't go there, I only post on there, so I had no idea. I found a picture of my Sister, and my niece all dressed up. She was there for a Marine Corps holiday ball. It was so good to see she was alright. Our conversation didn't go all that great, very tense on her side, but she came looking for me. It has me torn between so grateful and happy, to missing what she and I once had. In all things, and in everyday, God Is good!
Well Verna. I'm happy that she's reached out to you but sorry that the relationship is so difficult. It probably won't make you feel much better but unfortunately most of the people I know have difficult relationships with their families. So many of them are completely broken. So many are completely estranged. It sounds like your sister doesn't want to acknowledge abuse you might have been subjected to because it's her father. It would threaten her whole view of him to admit what he's done. But the fact that she searched for you means that she's partially admitting that she believes it. Just partially though. I'm so sorry that you've had to go through what youve had to. I'm going to pray for you to have a sense of peace in this difficult situation. In a perfect world, family should be the ones who are loyal and protective over us. Unfortunately we're living in an extremely fallen world where sometimes our family members turn on us and don't show us the loyalty and kindness we all deserve. You're stregnth is in the Lord. Someday all will be made whole again. Im saying a prayer for you now. Love you!
Hey Verna!! 👋 Thinking about you. Hope you're doing well. 🌼 🌸 🌻
I'm OK. Just being quiet. How are you hon? How's the family?
Were good. I guess we have our reflective moods and our talkative moods. ❤️
I think it's normal. I hope so anyway. I got to talk to my Sister yesterday for the first time in a year and a half. I confronted my stepfather with some stuff, and he went to her to deny things before I could talk to her. She took his side. He is her dad, not mine. We share the same mom. I send her verses everyday, and she never looked at them. Then out of the blue my daughter in law alerts me that my sis is looking for me on Facebook. I don't go there, I only post on there, so I had no idea. I found a picture of my Sister, and my niece all dressed up. She was there for a Marine Corps holiday ball. It was so good to see she was alright. Our conversation didn't go all that great, very tense on her side, but she came looking for me. It has me torn between so grateful and happy, to missing what she and I once had. In all things, and in everyday, God Is good!
Well Verna. I'm happy that she's reached out to you but sorry that the relationship is so difficult. It probably won't make you feel much better but unfortunately most of the people I know have difficult relationships with their families. So many of them are completely broken. So many are completely estranged. It sounds like your sister doesn't want to acknowledge abuse you might have been subjected to because it's her father. It would threaten her whole view of him to admit what he's done. But the fact that she searched for you means that she's partially admitting that she believes it. Just partially though. I'm so sorry that you've had to go through what youve had to. I'm going to pray for you to have a sense of peace in this difficult situation. In a perfect world, family should be the ones who are loyal and protective over us. Unfortunately we're living in an extremely fallen world where sometimes our family members turn on us and don't show us the loyalty and kindness we all deserve. You're stregnth is in the Lord. Someday all will be made whole again. Im saying a prayer for you now. Love you!
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Thank you sweetie. Prayers are always welcome. Love you too!! 🙏🌻💗🤗
V. I also asked God to give you a hug from me ...lol Did you feel it? 😄
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Honestly, I may have. You are so sweet. Thank you hon!
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